Saturday, April 11, 2009
Don't Marry A Rich, Ugly, Middle-aged Man
My mom's friend's daughter - okay, let's call her W - is such a joker.
She's married to this rich, ugly guy who's several years her senior. I mean, it's perfectly fine to marry older men. It's also perfectly fine to marry a rich man. I wouldn't think it's fine to marry an ugly man but okay I well... I would acknowledge that there are people who think appearance doesn't matter (that much).
The thing that bugged me a lot when I heard of her marriage was that she actually like another guy and was waiting for him to chase her, but when he didn't, she gave up and went with the guy who's now her husband.
Okay so what's wrong with that?
One - Why would you WAIT for a person to chase you? I mean... how can "a person chasing you" be something within your expectation? Answer - She thinks she is darn pretty and that the world will gian her forever and ever AND MIND YOU I am not exaggerating here. When he didn't eventually woo her, she told her mom that she thinks that's because he was afraid to do so because he felt that he wasn't good enough for her.
When news about this reached me, I almost died of terror. What kind of alien landed on our planet - Why would, and how would anyone come up with such a conclusion??? And I wonder how much confidence one must have to even mention this to someone else.
Then, because of the "inferiority complex" of the projected bf, she eventually got together with the ugly man and very quickly, got married. Now they have a kid.
Tragically, but half-expectedly, her baby girl is not pretty. And she is quite extremely pissed and depressed about it. My mom's friend called my mom to tell her about how it's sad that her daughter somewhat "hiam" her own kid because she looked like her dad instead of herself.
I felt like slapping that woman when I heard that. First, I really wish she would stop thinking that she is bloody pretty. I mean anyone who's so obsessed with herself should just die larh. Next, I am super sickened that she's so concerned about appearance and yet brought herself to marry an ugly man. Seriously lor, if she thinks appearance doesn't matter, she wouldn't hiam her own kid. And if she hiams her own kid, it means she hiams her husband's fugliness... which also means the main reason for the marriage is $ lor. I mean by eliminating alternative explanations, that is the conclusion that I arrived at lah, I'm not saying that it's 100% true, it's just something that is PROBABLY true.
Finally, I am disgusted by her stupidity. If you marry and ugly man, of course there is 50% change that your kid is ugly, what. Even with my buang math and buang science, I could figure that out. I cannot understand why she didn't expect her kid to be not pretty. One word - 笨。
Whatever. I know I sound quite mean in this post. I feel sorry for the kid and wish that she'll grow up to be prettier (although I would also like to see her mom feeling sad for having an unpretty kid... argghhh...), but still, I thought there's some sort of justice in this whole thing... A punishment for that woman for overrating her own charms and for marrying a bag of gold.
I mean, what to marry for the sake of money also marry some rich dying old man what. At least you can inherit the wealth quickly and find 10 hot, young boyfriends after his death. Really lor... 笨！
unclaimedpropertyofthecounts
2:31 AM
Don't Marry A Rich, Ugly, Middle-aged Man
My mom's friend's daughter - okay, let's call her W - is such a joker.
She's married to this rich, ugly guy who's several years her senior. I mean, it's perfectly fine to marry older men. It's also perfectly fine to marry a rich man. I wouldn't think it's fine to marry an ugly man but okay I well... I would acknowledge that there are people who think appearance doesn't matter (that much).
The thing that bugged me a lot when I heard of her marriage was that she actually like another guy and was waiting for him to chase her, but when he didn't, she gave up and went with the guy who's now her husband.
Okay so what's wrong with that?
One - Why would you WAIT for a person to chase you? I mean... how can "a person chasing you" be something within your expectation? Answer - She thinks she is darn pretty and that the world will gian her forever and ever AND MIND YOU I am not exaggerating here. When he didn't eventually woo her, she told her mom that she thinks that's because he was afraid to do so because he felt that he wasn't good enough for her.
When news about this reached me, I almost died of terror. What kind of alien landed on our planet - Why would, and how would anyone come up with such a conclusion??? And I wonder how much confidence one must have to even mention this to someone else.
Then, because of the "inferiority complex" of the projected bf, she eventually got together with the ugly man and very quickly, got married. Now they have a kid.
Tragically, but half-expectedly, her baby girl is not pretty. And she is quite extremely pissed and depressed about it. My mom's friend called my mom to tell her about how it's sad that her daughter somewhat "hiam" her own kid because she looked like her dad instead of herself.
I felt like slapping that woman when I heard that. First, I really wish she would stop thinking that she is bloody pretty. I mean anyone who's so obsessed with herself should just die larh. Next, I am super sickened that she's so concerned about appearance and yet brought herself to marry an ugly man. Seriously lor, if she thinks appearance doesn't matter, she wouldn't hiam her own kid. And if she hiams her own kid, it means she hiams her husband's fugliness... which also means the main reason for the marriage is $ lor. I mean by eliminating alternative explanations, that is the conclusion that I arrived at lah, I'm not saying that it's 100% true, it's just something that is PROBABLY true.
Finally, I am disgusted by her stupidity. If you marry and ugly man, of course there is 50% change that your kid is ugly, what. Even with my buang math and buang science, I could figure that out. I cannot understand why she didn't expect her kid to be not pretty. One word - 笨。
Whatever. I know I sound quite mean in this post. I feel sorry for the kid and wish that she'll grow up to be prettier (although I would also like to see her mom feeling sad for having an unpretty kid... argghhh...), but still, I thought there's some sort of justice in this whole thing... A punishment for that woman for overrating her own charms and for marrying a bag of gold.
I mean, what to marry for the sake of money also marry some rich dying old man what. At least you can inherit the wealth quickly and find 10 hot, young boyfriends after his death. Really lor... 笨！
unclaimedpropertyofthecounts
2:31 AM